A Nigerian lady, identified as Efe Johnson has recounted the terms and conditions her ex-boyfriend gave her while dating.

According to the young lady, her ex-boyfriend warned her not to attend a particular church only for him to become a member of that same church after their relationship ended.

She also disclosed that her ex-boyfriend asked her not to further her education by doing her masters abroad; an act she described as selfish.

Taking to her Twitter page, the lady wrote;

“I once dated someone who told me I couldn’t attend a church but became a member of that church immediately after we split. I’m dissecting with my therapist, and you don’t realize how crazy some things are until after. Again, women with a purpose need to stay away from insecure men,” she wrote.

“It’s insane reviewing timestamps. “Can’t go to that church, won’t do a masters abroad, must do this, must do that” and it’s mostly after the woman starts to earn more and travel more. Phew. If anything, human nature is selfish, and insecure men are a weapon.”